With the summer almost running out and the joy of not having that much stress day in and day out (especially for couples with children).
Quality time with your partner is a big factor in a healthy relationship. Before the final few days of summer 2012 runs out, maybe you can work out something to spice up the master's bedroom or the shag pad a little to give good vibes (and good motions). Here are some helpful tips which I found online which are sure to help out loosen that knot thats been keeping you backed up in the pleasure zone by not getting into the proper mood.
Get a Lock!
If there is one thing that couples find really annoying is people wandering into the love nest just when a business deal is being arranged so to speak. A lock can surely remove the need for muffled or controlled sounds that can arouse curious ears. A simple mortice latch would do just to keep things out while in session. Some people just hate the thought of the thrill or adventure so once you're safely locked in without the possibility of someone walking in for a free show then you can rest easy in venturing to some new explorations.
Get the Scent!
To prep your bedroom for some action smell is one of the most important things to keep in mind. No one wants to make out in a room that stinks, unless if it reeks of chlorine or disinfectant which most rooms outside smell of (right?). Smell is one of the most powerful senses and if you can get your room smelling seductive your chance of getting more sex will increase massively. To turn guys on, you should invest in some vanilla scented candles. Vanilla is a natural libido booster, which calms men and reduces their inhibitions. Light the candles at least 15 minutes before you go to bed to make sure that the room is fully scented. To turn your lady on, you should look to buy calming scents, like lavender. By de-stressing your girl, you will ensure that the stress hormone, cortisol, is reduced.
Get the Out of Town Feel!
When you’re on vacation, how good is sex? It’s hot, it’s wild and it’s carefree. To recapture some of that magic, surprise your partner by changing your room around every few months. You can make simple changes, like buying new sheets, or big changes like changing the position of your bed. You could also add new furniture to your room. You can also buy “sex blankets”; fabrics that are silky and soft, yet have inner moisture barriers to absorb any liquid. These sensuous touches will vamp up your bedroom and make your sex better. Sometimes imagination is the best key to a successful experience.
Most of the time people are more attune with the deed when the lights are not shining bright. Only porn films have proper lighting to feature everything, but in reality private sessions between couples are more romantic with dimmed lights or controlled lighting. If you want to enhance the lighting without having to buy a new bulb then painting the bulb with nail varnish (red / pink) is the best way to do it. Also amber lighting helps boost female arousal levels simply cause orange increases women’s nitric oxide levels, which causes blood vessels to dilate and more blood to pump through the body.
Turn Off Non-essentials!
Although some find that snuggling under the covers while watching your favourite show can seem romantic, experts suggest your bedroom should be a gadget free zone. It is thought that too much tech can distract you and your partner so that you either don’t have much sex at all, or when you do have sex, you are not focused (It's impossible to concentrate on the deed when you get an alert from Facebook, Twitter, Foursquare, or SMS). To reconnect to your guy or girl relocate your TV, phone and computer. If you use your phone as your alarm, buy an alarm clock instead. To turn up the intimacy levels a notch further, when having sex try to look directly into your partner’s eyes for at least one minute.
Enjoy your last few days of laying back, spend time with your loved one and think about the good it can do for your relationship. If you think there are more suggestions to getting the best out of summer together what would you suggest?
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